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Coffee Date Talk (From iMOM)

In the spirit of engagement and conversation, here is a wonderful little conversation starter from iMom.

Coffee date talk

So go make your Cuppa and invite your man for chat!

Have fun!

Proud, tough, confident women

Ladies. Sometimes I need to take a step back, observe & reflect in order to understand which course-of-conversation to follow. So here it is! But before we get started, grab your favourite mug or jug, use fresh beans (be extravagant and use the flavoured ones) and make yourself a special “me time” cuppa. Now we’re ready.

Coffee, friends and especially women are some of my favourite things. Simply because they each have so much to offer. In a wash-worn cup a dark brew can house international flavours or aromas. Friendships appear to be made up of laughs, jokes and fun but you surely know (and agree) that below the surface (of a true!) friendship, there is a mortar formed of understanding, support and storm-withstanding-love. And woman. Dresses, make-up and emotions at first glance BUT there is so much more. Strength. Passion. Heart. Love. There is so much to offer.

So why do we sell ourselves so short? Why do we insist on clinging to those we love instead of believing that we are worthy of their love and respect simply because of who we are? Why do we analyse every conversation and deed until we find the fault instead of believing that good deeds, friends and opportunities are available to each of us? Why are we so afraid of ourselves? Our inner voice?

Please forgive me, if you are a woman who is sure of yourself, know your own worth and can comfortably allow your loved ones space to realise their own potential and dreams – then obviously I am not talking to you. But perhaps each of us, as we find our own inner voice of confidence and worth should mentor and guide women around us who still hesitate. Perhaps our confidence will encourage their own.

Let’s redefine our thoughts. Let’s not be afraid to say “I really am worth it”. Let’s not be afraid to just believe that if you sow into a friendship, the love and goodness will be returned because I am worth fighting for. Let’s not stop believing that our spouses / partners / loved ones will not run from BUT RATHER to us because we are worth fighting for.

Let’s not forget that nobody has to define your worth, other than you.

 

Peaceful Wife

Become Empowered, Healed, and Confident in Christ

With a Cuppa Coffee

Hearty chats for women about this, that and whatnot.