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When two become one, we are already a family. When we add the blessing of children to that we are adding more love, tension, affection and confusion to the mix. Our world is full of messages that pulls family members in individual directions – as mothers and wives and women of God, let’s work toward creating happy, healthy families that work, play and pray together.

Looking to the Future

Looking to the Future. After much reflection, there is a bright bright joy that beckons!

Looking to the Future.

The fundamental fact of existence is that this trust in God, this faith, is the firm foundation under everything that makes life worth living. It’s our handle on what we can’t see. The act of faith is what distinguished our ancestors, set them above the crowd. Heb 11:1-2 (MSG)

It has been awhile, my friend, since you and I shared a Cuppa. Much has happened in my home, heart and life and presume the same is true for you? I will start this conversation by sharing my part – feel free to join and share your stories.

This year has been tougher than others in its own unique way. I have been struggling with severe headaches that left me weak and often confined me to bed for days on end. Nobody could make sense of it. We prayed. I saw many doctors. It was quite an epic little drama in my little family. Add to that, my husband had been asked to travel for work and he spent more and more time away from home and in another city. Our home felt empty without him. I battled to cope alone and our 5 year old Super Star was taking strain. But God has remained so good to us.

He was our strength when there was none left. Always providing, always caring. We never lacked. I (we) have been blessed beyond reckoning and understanding during this year! This has become the year during which I have realised just how grateful I oughto be for all we have (not only in earthly possessions!) in friends, family and in the Heavenly Father who loves us beyond comprehension and understanding!

I have purchased the 1000 Gifts book by Ann Voskamp and I have downloaded the App for my iPad. It’s has been amazingly refreshing to sit down and take stock of what you have to be grateful for, especially when days seem confused and rush past. It has been a wonderful testimony of my journey and my family’s through the past couple of months to remind us of His ever present Grace and Love and Watchfulness (made-up word?) in our day to day lives.

Let all that I am praise the Lord;with my whole heart, I will praise his holy name. PS 130:1 (NLT)

We have since, amongst the many doctors and neurologists and specialists, found a doctor who suggested a diagnoses and treatment that seems to work for me.

Not to us, O Lord, not to us,but to your name goes all the glory for your unfailing love and faithfulness. Ps 115:1 (NLT)

My SAMM is home now which is great because his company offered him a FANTASTIC position in Cape Town (the city he was previously traveling to) – one of the most beautiful places in South Africa and we are frantically packing boxes getting ready for the move in 4 weeks time!

So what do I know now that I didn’t know at the start of this year and journey?

  1. Trust the Holy Spirit when He leads you – He sees a far bigger picture than you can even imagine.
  2. Invest in your relationship with your husband when the pressure is low and the love is high. Learn to respect him NOW, support him NOW so that when the pressure cooker starts to boil and you’re reserves are running low you can trust in that partnership-relationship. (Look our for a post on this soon).
  3. Make time for a Cuppa with God as often as you can – when nothing else satisfies or feeds, He gives strength and sustenance.

So, we’re almost caught up. I would love to hear from you. Leave a note and let me know how you have been. I look forward to another Cuppa with you soon.

Happy Father’s Day!

Happy Father’s Day!!


Lord, thank You for an opportunity to celebrate the men and fathers in our lives.Lord, thank You for every father that is present and committed to leading his family and his children. Thank You for fathers who are willing to encourage their children with love. Thank You Lord, for men who are rooted and established in You!

Father, please raise up a generation of strong leaders, men who will stand with authority. Lord, please give the fathers and men wisdom so that they will lead with Spirit-directed intent and conviction. Lord, please turn their eyes to You as they respond to their calling in You – today and every day.


Deeper connections - what to say - how to say it - be heard

with author, speaker, & trainer, Nina Roesner

Peaceful Wife

Become Empowered, Healed, and Confident in Christ

With a Cuppa Coffee

Hearty chats for women about this, that and whatnot.